Single again...and it hurts

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Single again...and it hurts

Akira25 · Senior

Don't worry you'll get over it sooner or later

Fraggle Rock · Hiro Nakamura's boyfriend

ok lang yan.... single is blessed.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Fraggle and Akira: Thanks for the boost

s2chard · KONOHA VILLAGE - Jounin

think of it as a time out. enjoy being single again.

lei · Teddy's Chompy

being single or in a relationship has their own ups and downs.. its up to you to make the most out of your situation.

cheer up! :)

LP · the missing slayer

ok lang un.....there's still hope....like they say,, there are still many fish in the ocean...

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

lei wrote:

being single or in a relationship has their own ups and downs.. its up to you to make the most out of your situation. cheer up! :)

Thanks. Alam mo, i receive the latest e-mail from a friend in Manila. She's making me a villain, and it hurts more.

That's the reason why i'm no longer in Quezon City, because she's releasing a Pandora's box.

Thanks for cheering me up though.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

LP wrote:

ok lang un.....there's still hope....like they say,, there are still many fish in the ocean...
Thanks dude...the break-up is complicated kasi eh...kaya masakit. What is worse is that i can't go to the church in which i'm one of the youth leaders because she spreads things.

Dude, dinamay niya pati career ko.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

s2chard wrote:

think of it as a time out. enjoy being single again.

I'm enjoying here in a province. I call this hideout.

mikel11 · WRC Rallye Power House Driver

baka di naman siya para talaga sayo. alam mo naman na may plan si lord para sa atin- may dahilan ang lahat

s2chard · KONOHA VILLAGE - Jounin

wow dude, di ko alam yung buong story pero, medyo pangit ata yung sinisiraan ka. cooldown ka muna sa province. pabayaan mo siya. kahit na sinisiraan ka, i believe, yung mga sinasabihan niya ay di 100% na maniniwala sa kanya. hyaan mo lalabas din ang katotohana.

John 8:32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.

WingZero · Bulletproof Beerkadet

Tough times

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

RE: Single again...and it hurts

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

s2chard wrote:

wow dude, di ko alam yung buong story pero, medyo pangit ata yung sinisiraan ka. cooldown ka muna sa province. pabayaan mo siya. kahit na sinisiraan ka, i believe, yung mga sinasabihan niya ay di 100% na maniniwala sa kanya. hyaan mo lalabas din ang katotohana. John 8:32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.

Thanks dude. It came to my knowledge that most of my co-leaders don't believe her.

Mikel11: Right. Things really happen for a purpose. It made me closer to my cousins. It made me closer to my grandparents.

kunoichi_kuno · Senior

i've never really experienced breaking up cos my past relationships (before the one i'm in, which is serious) have all been unofficial and short. so i can only imagine the pain you're going through. but i say, don't let it pull you down. there's always a lesson to be learned from everything. here's something i'd like to share. forwarded message sa text pero maganda.

"i've realized that life is indeed full of contradictions.
sometimes it's crazy to be sane, you need to fall to fly, people suffer because you care.
you have to unlearn to know the lesson, you have to give up because you are strong. you have to be wrong to make things right. nonetheless, life's complexities are also life's source of beauty. we should cry to laugh again, fall apart to be whole again and get hurt to love again."

cheer up bugoy! it's never the end of the world. only another new beginning to something greater.

oliver · Lion King

i-Share ko lang itong tula na ito. read mo ito.

After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman,
not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn...

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Nice poems, both of you, oliver and kunoichi.

mikel11 · WRC Rallye Power House Driver

may friendster account ka ba may mga close friends ako na AVAILABLE if ok lang sayo

Lyndon · Beerkada Creator

It's good you're hurting, because if you're not hurting when a relationship ends, you just wasted your time.

It's good you gave it your best, because if you didn't, you just wasted your time.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

mikel11 wrote:

may friendster account ka ba may mga close friends ako na AVAILABLE if ok lang sayo

Okay...i'll give my e-mail ad to you that i'm using for friendster.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Lyndon wrote:

It's good you're hurting, because if you're not hurting when a relationship ends, you just wasted your time. It's good you gave it your best, because if you didn't, you just wasted your time.

Thanks for that, L...remember the time that i sketched her for you? Pinakita ko lang yung pic...oh well those days are gone. Again, thank you for that quote.

Date: May 20, 2006

Are you still in hiding? Why hide if you're not guilty?

kunoichi_kuno · Senior

Anonymous wrote:

Are you still in hiding? Why hide if you're not guilty?

if you're hiding, does that automatically mean you're guilty? in bugoy's case, i think it's his rehabilitation, retreat, rest, relaxation, reflection... bakit kelangan i-view mo as negative? ang babaw naman kung ganun. as if walang karapatan si bugoy to have a time-out. actually, sa mga nakilala ko na kagagaling ng break-up, they often want to get out of a place (iwas reminders sa past). kung hindi man, engage in various activities para madaling maka-get-over sa break-up.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

I was not supposed to hide, but the hurt is there. Besides, they want me to marry the girl against my will. You see, they don't know the extent of what she had done to me and my family. I defended my love for her many, many times, but the more i do it, the more she demands.

Latest news: according to an insider, she was hospitalized because of depression. I know that i'll look every inch a villain because of that, but hey, during our two year-plus relationship, i gave my time (hatid-sundo ko, dahil yun ang gusto niya...5pm-10pm nasa kanila ako, kahit alam niyang may pasok ako bukas. Kailangan not too early pag sinundo to go to work...dpat 5pm sharp nandun ako sa work to fetch her...i have work, but she's saying, "ikaw naman ang may-ari eh"...pag earlier than 10, nagagalit) From monday to friday, my work time is from 8:30AM-4PM because she demands too much. Often times, she'll humiliate me in public, making look like a wicked man (lalo pag may babae sa harapan namin), only apologizing in private. I gave my effort, time, and money. All i'm asking for is consideration of my work and church activities , and understanding...some feminist may think it is ONLY ME who is at fault.

I always cry in front of her pag nagagalit siya (she's scary pag galit), but you know what she'll say? "Di mo ako makukuha sa luha mo at paiyak-iyak mo." Minumura ako lagi before nagwowalk-out pag nireremind...now she's depressed? Hospitalized? She says, "Sorry?" Too late the hero. During our two year relationship, i never heard her WILLFULLY say, "sorry" to an OBVIOUS mistake. Marami ng nadamay...even my kuya was threatened by her father. They just see her as a lady that cries; they don't know the deeper reason why i left her: her self centeredness, selfishness, she is a control freak. I supposed to leave her last year, but she threatens to ruin my life.

Still though, I understand the opinion of mr./ms. anonymous.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Kunoichi, thank you for understanding. I hope and pray that things will go well for me...and her...after this break-up.

kunoichi_kuno · Senior

bugoy, you're welcome. things will turn out well if you believe it will.

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Thanks talaga kichi...i know things will turn out just fine...just don't know when...For now, I'm focusing on my relatives, and reading books, especially the Bible

Megara · Tiger Princess

well, that's good. keep yourself busy for the meantime

bugoytheman · Pseudo Ponderer

Megara: i'm gradually moving on...i think pag pasukan lalong ok na kasi may paglilibangan ako. I'm spending my energy more on my family and relatives.

Anonymous: najanaja? is that you?