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oh yeah.....good thing na naka move on kana......remember that its ok to forget but dont regret.... move on kana....


 


then


 


revenge...hehehehe....it is sweet dba???



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tama..babawi ako


para sa mga kaibigan ko..


para sa pamilya ko..


para sa pinakamamahal ko...


at pra sa sarili ko...


babawi ako!



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oh revenge? wala yun sa vocabulary ko, pero why not :D

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Najanaja: oic...ano ang masasabi mo sa sinulid (thread) na ito? 

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Oliver: that's good...you laugh...you learn...you cry...you learn.

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oliver wrote:

oh revenge? wala yun sa vocabulary ko, pero why not :D

wag mo ng gawin bka isipin pa niya di mo nakayanan hinahanap hanap mo pa rin siya


pakatatag ka lang and be strong deadmahin mo



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oliver wrote:

oh revenge? wala yun sa vocabulary ko, pero why not :D


hindi naman talaga revenge...


cyempre maraming nagbago nung naging kayo...


at lalong maraming nagbago nung naghiwalay nakayo...


its mending things up....


basta....be happy sa mga ginagawa mo...


mag jabee ka



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Kumoshirokun wrote:

....be happy sa mga ginagawa mo... mag jabee ka

Prefer that other fastfood place, the one which serves pizza and pasta.


Oli: Good to see you've moved on. There will be others.



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yes.

thanks.

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oo nga.....dapat revenge....para makita nya (ung X mo) na gaano xa kamali sa ginawa nya....makita mo rin sa mukha nya ang sakit na nadarama mo noon...hehehehehe...

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Naku, huwag naman. What goes around comes around.


Saka, sa break-up naman, di lang yung isang party ang nasaktan/ nasasaktan.


 



 


 



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How do you recover from a break-up?


I haven't been in an actual relationship yet but I already experienced a having my heart broken. A good way to move on... if it hurts that much then just take it step by step, it won't disappear instantly so you have to do it slowly. Finding someone else in replacement of that person is not a very good idea (even if you say that you didn't take that person as a replacement), I tried that, it totally does not work at all and its unfair to the other person as well.


As for revenge? there is nothing more sweeter, in fact, it is actually the sweetest revenge of all (for me that is) : Not taking back the person who broke your heart when they're coming back to you.  



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LP wrote:

oo nga.....dapat revenge....para makita nya (ung X mo) na gaano xa kamali sa ginawa nya....makita mo rin sa mukha nya ang sakit na nadarama mo noon...hehehehehe...

malakas ang balik ng karma.




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hmmm... wag ng gumanti. "magalit ka ngunit wag magkasala".




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s2chard wrote:

hmmm... wag ng gumanti. "magalit ka ngunit wag magkasala".

 


huh? pano yun?



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wag kang magtanim ng sama ng loob. kasi yang revenge na yan, ang ugat niyan, sama ng loob. promise, yang sama ng loob, revenge, and alikes, ikaw lang ang pahihirapan niya. magiging multo mo yan sa buhay mo.




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probably there is a reason....


me pag me nangyayari sakin...i think


bat nga ba ito nangyayari....


hehehe...oi baka magrevenge ka....ako kasi iba naiisip ko sa revenge


alam mo yung me tali sa ulo tas me dalang MACHO GUN!!!


tas sa background nia me mga tanke at mga zooming jetplanes...


tas biglang icloclose up ung clenched fist niya habang humihigpit ito...


maririnig mo ung squeak sa paghigpit nito..sabay bigkas ng


harhar...REVENGE...


hehhe sensya na....hehe



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wala namang masama sa sinabi ko ah....ang gusto ko lang sabihin eh...gumanti ka sa ginawa ng X mo..kagaya ng humanap ng iba..o kaya mas cute pa sa kanya o ung celbrity para makita nya na nagregret xa sa ginawa nya.........

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Pero LP: unfair naman sa sunod mong makakarelasyon. Ikaw ba, papayag kang gawing "trophy" boyfriend lang?


 




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najanaja wrote:

Pero LP: unfair naman sa sunod mong makakarelasyon. Ikaw ba, papayag kang gawing "trophy" boyfriend lang?  
ok....mali pala ako....my fault....cge na....

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" Sorry di kita hinabol...


  Sorry, tayoy malabo...


  Maya maya lang ay may ilaw na...


  Pero sana ay malaman mo...


  Magkailaw man madilim parin..


  Magkailaw man madilim parin...


  Kung wala ka...kung wala ka"


  ...T~T...



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Pero LP: unfair naman sa sunod mong makakarelasyon. Ikaw ba, papayag kang gawing "trophy" boyfriend lang?  

True, unfair talaga yan. Hindi magandang gumamit ng ibang tao para pagselosin lang ang ex. Paano kapag di sya naapektuhan? E di ikaw din ang nasaktan.


Makipag-commit na lang sa bago if you really have feelings for that person.



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We plan to meet up last february 15 but hindi na tuloy because she told me na she need to think because shes not over with her EX yet.
On Feb 25 she got overed with the ex
We set up a meeting again on march 4 but she was hospitalized.. sabi ko i undersdand pero later i found out that the person is lying about her true identity when I searched for her sa Makati med.


She explained. what I did is to be compassionate and understanding... sabi ko lets meet again the next week after march 4. She said she cannot meet me up due to some reasons she dont know. Then I found out it was about her lesser self esteem.

finally we set up another meeting on March 22, but earlier she told me that she have 2 exams and a lot of papers to work with. she was asking to move it to 24th...

I said "bahala ka, choice mo yan"

My point is. she can do the papers now and review early so recalling what she have reviewed will be easy when she take the exam on thursday.. I just wanted to see her and for her to keep her promise. kahit 5 minutes lang Ahahaha... wala lang nalulungkot ako.






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she is just afraid.....maybe becoz she myt have feelings again....

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here's a nice text message i received last night which i believe is appropriate for this thread...

"you can't finish a book without closing its chapters.
if you want to move on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single carress.
it's a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.
the greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on
and holding on when you need to let go.
we lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else
who can love us even more than we can love ourselves."

sad nga yan na mukhang ayaw nyang makipag-meet. tama lang din when you said bahala sya, choice nya whether she wants to meet with you or not. give her time and give yourself space. i'm sure you have plenty of other things to do.

-- Edited by kunoichi_kuno at 15:37, 2006-03-21

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Kunoichi: What if the person doesn't believe in destiny?


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. . . finally we set up another meeting on March 22, but earlier she told me that she have 2 exams and a lot of papers to work with. she was asking to move it to 24th... I said "bahala ka, choice mo yan"


. . . wala lang nalulungkot ako.



Think I've read a story like this before. The meeting gets postponed to a few days later. But days turn into weeks, and then into months, until finally. . .


If there's still hope, please don't give up yet Oli.


Oli needs some cheering up, people.



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oliver wrote:

We plan to meet up last february 15 but hindi na tuloy because she told me na she need to think because shes not over with her EX yet. On Feb 25 she got overed with the ex We set up a meeting again on march 4 but she was hospitalized.. sabi ko i undersdand pero later i found out that the person is lying about her true identity when I searched for her sa Makati med. She explained. what I did is to be compassionate and understanding... sabi ko lets meet again the next week after march 4. She said she cannot meet me up due to some reasons she dont know. Then I found out it was about her lesser self esteem. finally we set up another meeting on March 22, but earlier she told me that she have 2 exams and a lot of papers to work with. she was asking to move it to 24th... I said "bahala ka, choice mo yan" My point is. she can do the papers now and review early so recalling what she have reviewed will be easy when she take the exam on thursday.. I just wanted to see her and for her to keep her promise. kahit 5 minutes lang Ahahaha... wala lang nalulungkot ako.


eto lang yan. if you are still willing to have a relationship with this girl, then go for it.


sa kin lang, looks like iniiwasan ka nya. are you demanding or not? just a question.


it would also be better, if you could text her everyday, pero walang pressure. as in hi... how's life. joke... ganun.


may kasabihan kasi na pag pwede maraming paraan at pag ayaw maraming dahilan.




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if there's one thing i know about being a woman, it's this: kung ayaw ko, ayaw talaga. well, wait... i can be fickle-minded so minsan i change my mind every now and then. ow! i'm just confusing you guys... sorry!

anyway, sabi nga ni frag, may mga nagdadahilan. depende din sa kung gaano mo kakilala si girl. pero it could be na iniiwasan ka nya. kasi kung gugustuhin nya, she would meet with you talaga, rain or shine, snow or not. remember, "if there's a will, there's a way."

you said you were being understanding and compassionate. now if that isn't returned, let me just remind you to be fair to yourself. wag naman puro na lang siya. think of yourself, too.

hindi maiiwasan na iisipin mo sya every now and then. that's normal. i know people whose recovery from break-ups take up to two years. pero kung mas maaga, eh di mas mabuti. later on, kung hindi talaga kayo, you'll just look back at this episode, maybe sigh, but you'll also smile because you had her once in your life. hindi mawawala ang memories nyo, especially the happy ones. again, to quote, "better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

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Kunoichi: What if the person doesn't believe in destiny?

if a person doesn't believe in destiny, i think that person still knows when the right time has come for him/her to move on. but eventually, i think that person will still realize later on that things have turned out for the better. kasi kung may pagsisihan man tayo sa mga ginawa natin, we should still appreciate those things for having taught us a thing or two.

am i getting this right? now if a person wants to fight for something, i believe that s/he should know if that fight is worth it. you have to choose your battles. set your priorities. remember that people come and go. love, unfortunately, can also be lost. i read somewhere that love is a gift, you can't demand for it. the lesson i think is that we should be thankful for an opportunity of loving someone and being loved in return. if it turns out to be good-bye in the end, then so be it.

did i make sense?

basta, oli, we're here for you.

-- Edited by kunoichi_kuno at 09:40, 2006-03-22

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