Mello wrote:

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Buti na lang dito mo pinost, Miss Syeri. Or I would've lost the chance to answer. :D

Waiting for me? Could be. To answer your question, I would just have to force the right time to come in sooner. I would definitely tell this girl how I feel. I can't go on dreaming on the what could/would-have-been's.

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yey!!! balitaan mo kami if you do. Am sure the people here would support you on that.

sanggre_felicia wrote:

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porky wrote:

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oh well...she wasn't really avoiding me pala...she just...uhmmm...got busy,i think...

we're still in the same band...and we'll be playing on the 15th sa UPBaguio.ohyeah!nuod kayo!

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OMG! that's what i said to that guy!!!

are you studying in UP Baguio? or are you just playing at the lantern parade?

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wha.oh well.

UPB?nope.but she does.i've more friends there thn from my skool.ayon.got sick,REALLY SICK,tha night of the performance...pero tugtog pa ren.haha.

How do you start things over?

Maybe you are just paranoid or having a concsious excuse, thinking that "you are like a stranger that she's trying to avoid". Well, i dunno what really happened or is happening between the two of you.

Try starting little by little. Short text messages asking how she was or inspirational messages to brighten her day. Give her small trinkets or food. Then start small talk.

I hope it works out.

Speaking from expereince, everytime I fall for somebody, my tendency is to put the girl "in a pedestal". Therefore, she matters so much that I am automatically paranoid, overly conscious, and uncomfortable around her. The general demeanor scares off the girls, bro.

My word of advice? Imagine you don't like this girl at all. Imagine that, everytime you talk to her, that you're are talking to one of your friends lang. That way, you'll be relaxed and confident around her. Who knows, she may loosen up. Or not.

It's all in the balance, bro. Oh well, things happen for a reason. believe that.

Any updates on the situation?

WingZero wrote:

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As a very intelligent person keeps on telling me: Life is too short. Yes, we all plan to die later. In reality, no one can say exactly when our time is up. Could be years from now. Could be next month. Heck, it may even be tomorrow. Most of the time, we don't know.

Sorry for the rant . Here's some unsolicited advice for all the torpes out there: Go for it! If you get rejected, deal with it and move on.

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care to do the advice WingZ?

twistedkai wrote:

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WingZero wrote:

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As a very intelligent person keeps on telling me: Life is too short. Yes, we all plan to die later. In reality, no one can say exactly when our time is up. Could be years from now. Could be next month. Heck, it may even be tomorrow. Most of the time, we don't know.

Sorry for the rant . Here's some unsolicited advice for all the torpes out there: Go for it! If you get rejected, deal with it and move on.

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care to do the advice WingZ?

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Stupid me.. Wrong grammar, it should have been follow..

Lovaforlosers. This day is not special. It never is.

Yes. Bigger question is, what are you going to do about it?

can anyone plz tell me how to start over again? I want to start all over, to try and speak to her but it seems I coud never muster enough will to do so, the plain fact that she told me never to show my face to her again are acting like shackleas that keep me away from her. My mind says that she wants you gone, and that would make her happy, if you really love her, then stay away, but I long for her too much, and it's tearing me apart. She's the only girl I really loved, I sacrificed everything I have and given up everyone for her and yet she ditched me, she shoved me back home like a god forsken dog, and now I see she hates me even more, why this happened I do not know, we were not like this before, before we were happy together and it seemed like nothing could tear us apart then suddenly she left me with no reason, but still I love her and I need her, she's my life, what should I do?

sigh...my friend has plans to court me...i don't know how i feel...i mean he has a chance, but cguro im just afraid to fall for him, or maybe im afraid to admit that i also have feelings for him...ewan ko...basta...T_T

twisted hate: i think im afraid i might lose a friend as well as a lover...i dont know...before kasi way back in hs, he told me he likes me...then bigla sya nawala, then i realized that i liked him too...so nawala communication namin and all..then surprisingly nagkita kami biglaan...then ayun, nag start na ulit yung communication and all..actually lagi ko katext best friend nya, and i distance mself to him kasi ayoko magfall sakanya or i just dont want to admit na meron kahit konti...then nagkita nga kami nung best freind ng katext ko palage...and ayun...may chance naman xa sakin if ever he courts me...pero ewan ko...im just confused...ayoko naman sayangin yung chance..

You'll be needing a lot of communication along the way. At the same time, you'll have to understand what you really feel and communicate your thoughts/doubts/whatever to the people meant to hear them.