need your point of view...i dont know if mababaw lang xa or what, pero for me its not...the one ive been mentioning here, yung guy na may plan mag court sakin, nagccourt na nga...nung sat lang...so di yan...then yesterday my cuzin and i went to starbucks nga sa harbour...nung pauwi kami, nagtext yung guy sakin na he's home already...pagkatext nya nun nagreply ako...since yun na yung time na umuulan ng malakas and nasa daan kami ng cuz ko, we dont know what to do and all, nagpapanic na kami in short...so i texted him na natatakot kami mastranded, we dont know what to do, san sasakay, etc...panic mode talaga...actually pati best friend ng guy tinext ko din...guess who kung sino nagreply and nagalala samin ng cuz ko...yung best friend...sya yung katext ko from that time until pag uwi ko...concerned sya,inaask nya san na kami kung nakauwi na kami or what...yung isang guy?walang reply ni isa...ewan ko, pero alam nyo yung feeling na fine kahit wala ka naman magagawa para tulungan kami, pero yung mag text ka lang, yung alam ko na anjan ka, concerned, katext ko hanggang paguwi, ok na yun eh...parang yung presence lang nya sa text is enough to make me feel safe diba?what if something bad happened to us that time?diba?where was he when i needed him?best firend pa nya yung nagreply, and sort of sinamahan kami sa travel hanngang makauwi kami ng maayos...and ito pa, that incident happened mga 7 cguro...nagtext yung guy 11pm..ang sabi pa sori nakatulog xa kanina, and tulog na daw xa...so nag gudnyt na xa...and yung text pa nya is buti naman nakauwi kayo ng maayos...nagalit ba parents mo?ganun ang...ano yun, tulog xa kanina tas nagising xa para lang mag gudnyt sakin, tas natulog na ulit?nasan yung concern dun?kung nanliligaw sya i dont see his efforts...if he really loves me, eh di sana nagalala sya sakin diba?ndi eh...wala...so i texted him what i feel...sabi ko ndi ko nararamdaman na nageefort sya and all...wala sya kwenta...kahit friends ko and cuzin ko sabi he's not worth it...i haven't heard his explanation kais ndi pa xa nagttext...haay...am i asking too much from him?mababaw lang ba reason ko para magalit?i really don't know...one thing is for sure...ndi ako maghahabol sakanya kahit na like ko sya...bahala sya...

Tell him how you really feel...
then stop,forget everything and forget each others name and just walk away...

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another thing pa pala...shgould i tell his best friend about it?close kasi ako sa best friend nya eh...parang best frined ko an rin sya coz alam na nya lahat about me...should i tell him?baka kasi sabihin nya ang babaw ko naman, dahil lang dun...sigh...

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A best friend is one who understands, if he can't, he shouldn't be one in the first place.

-- Edited by Twisted Hate at 09:23, 2007-08-08

help naman po, what should I do? I continually try to move on, had lots of other girls ,but instead of healing I always end up wounding the wound that doesn't heal. I'm not hurt if the new girl played me for a dope or whatever, it hurts me because it reminds me of her, and cause of that I no longer really trust anyone that much and somehow an impression that all girls are palayers is embedded in my mind. plz help me clear my mind.

yup.. i agree with twisted hate.. the problem is you want to move on by diverting your hurt to other girls thus making yourself feel miserable all over again.. remember, your the only person that can help yourself. take a breather, stop chasing illusions, be content with yourself first (do you really know yourself? or what you really want? ) think of those first before you engage yourself on these pseudorelationships that will never ever satisfy you.. hope this helps..

isa lang sulosyon nyan, taralets, tagay tayo...

hahaha.. its not bad to remember.. there's nothing wrong with that.. let go.. ok lang maalala mo pero let it all go.. tapos na yun eh.. just another chapter in your life.. im not saying umasa ka pero if ever bumalik siya.. its another different chapter.. so close mo na yun.. let go..

remember the good days.. the stuff that made you the person who you are today. . and most of all be thankful.. some people search their whole lives to find love and yet they are unsuccessful, but you're lucky because even for a short period of time you had the chance to feel it.. daba?! cheer up..

the face the truth.nothing will happen if you still remorse on her. By the way I see it, their relationship will last for five years if their age is 18-20. Only a wishful thinking and assumption.
just accept your fate, just like I did long ago. Anyway we're still young so why hurry?

bata pa po ako hehe. 17 lng me.

anyway, my now current gf (my then girl bestfriend) was asking bout my past and somehow, unwittingly revealed how I really felt. I know that hurt her a lot. I don't know, maybe I'm really just trying to love her, because I kept insisting that the other oe has passed, then she told me this "hindi mo aq mahal nheo. si jane ang mahal mo. pinipilit mo lang siguro na mahalin aq pero sya ang mahal mo."

I was expecting that after that she would breaup with me, but she did'nt. she said she does'nt care if am not yet over jane and that she does not care how long she would want to wait.

Now I don't know what to think. I think I'm being ufair, or maybe she has other plans... ewan q.

could it be so? I'm having a really hard time to trusat the people around me, it is my nature after all. I never believed in anyone before untill her, and then, she broke it, now I'm back to how I view most people. Now I don't know if what is apparent is true. alam q pwd yan sinabi mo ate yani, at di ba unfair sa kanya yun? should I break up with her then?

talk to him or through his buddies why he thinks you're intimidating..and what does he mean by that...

thanks peeps.. that really helped
by the way,he has a girlfriend now and i think he's happy.. and i'm really happy for him.his buddies said that i come too strong that it's somewhat impossible for him tohave a chance with me.. weird weird weirder..

after two years... nagparamdam ulit siya. she added me to her friendster account and she was saying sorry...... When i first saw that she had invited me to be her friend... my heart stopped... I do not know why she ever did this? is she feeling guilty for what she had done? Im getting confused... i thougth I had moved on... but why do I feel the same way I felt about her before? I have somebody else no. Someone of whom I am sure would never do what she did to me... Why am I feeling this way?